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This or That Questions to Get to Know Someone
This or that is the fastest game in chat: two options, one pick, no thinking. Use these 70 when a conversation needs a quick boost.
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Send a pair, the other person picks one. You can send five at once and compare answers. The fun part is spotting what you have in common, then asking about the one pick that surprised you.
Food this or that
- Chai or coffee?
- Biryani or pizza?
- Sweet or spicy?
- Pani puri or momos?
- Home food or restaurant?
- Breakfast or dinner?
- Ice cream or gulab jamun?
- Veg or non-veg?
- Maggi or pasta?
- Street food or fine dining?
Travel this or that
- Mountains or beach?
- Train or flight?
- Window seat or aisle?
- Road trip or backpacking?
- Plan everything or go with the flow?
- Hostel or hotel?
- Solo trip or group trip?
- Goa or Ladakh?
- Summer or winter holiday?
- Old city or new city?
Lifestyle this or that
- Morning or night?
- Texting or calling?
- Books or movies?
- Cats or dogs?
- Gym or yoga?
- Android or iPhone?
- City or village?
- Early or late?
- Save or spend?
- Plans or surprises?
Entertainment this or that
- Bollywood or Hollywood?
- K-drama or anime?
- Cricket or football?
- Netflix or YouTube?
- Old songs or new songs?
- Comedy or horror?
- Series or movie?
- Concert or stand-up show?
- Arijit or Badshah?
- Board games or video games?
Deep this or that
- Heart or mind?
- Past or future?
- Be loved or be respected?
- Truth or comfort?
- Many friends or a few close ones?
- Freedom or security?
- Talk it out or take space?
- Forgive or forget?
- Adventure or stability?
- Change the world or enjoy it?
Silly this or that
- Talk to animals or speak every language?
- Be invisible or fly?
- Superpower or a million rupees?
- Time travel or teleport?
- Live in a cartoon or a video game?
- Always cold or always hot?
- Giant ant or tiny elephant?
- Unlimited data or unlimited snacks?
- Zombie movie or alien movie?
- Be a pirate or a ninja?
This or that for a first chat
- Introvert or extrovert?
- Coffee date or long walk?
- Message first or wait?
- Long chats or quick replies?
- Memes or voice notes?
- Emoji or full stop?
- Early sleeper or 3 AM thinker?
- Plans this weekend or lazy weekend?
- Deep talk or funny talk?
- Same city or long distance friend?
Tips that keep the chat going
Pick the surprise
If someone picks "village" over "city", ask why. That one follow-up beats ten more questions.
Answer too
Share your own picks so it feels like a game, not a survey.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What are good this or that questions?
Easy pairs like chai or coffee, mountains or beach and Bollywood or Hollywood. They are quick to answer and show a lot about a person.
How do you play this or that in a chat?
Send a pair of options, the other person picks one, and then you swap. Ask "why" on any pick that surprises you.
Are this or that questions good for strangers?
Yes. They are light, need no personal details and help two strangers find something in common fast.
How is this or that different from would you rather?
This or that is about quick preferences. Would you rather questions are hypothetical and usually need a longer answer.
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